Alumni News

Rev. Arthur Athans (’62)

By sthalum January 19th, 2025 in Alumni/ae Deaths

The following obituary was originally posted by Tasker Funeral Service and can be found here. 

Rev. Dr. Arthur E. Athans (Athanasios Emmanuel Athanasiou) of Dover, NH fell asleep in the Lord on Sunday, December 22, 2024, surrounded by his loving family.

He was born in Kimi on the island of Evia, Greece on December 9, 1930, the son of Rev. Dr. Emmanuel and Presbytera Anna (Karalis) Athans. He attended Panteion University in Athens, and the University of Toronto, and graduated from Holy Cross Theological Seminary in Brookline with a BA in 1956 and a BD in 1957. In 1962 he received a Master in Systematic Theology degree from Boston University, and a PhD in1992 from Somerset University in England.

Father Athans was ordained a deacon on August 15, 1955 in Somerville, MA and to the priesthood on October 9, 1955 in New London, CT by Bishop Athenagoras.

In 1955 he was assigned to the Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church in Dover, NH. Within a year, the church was destroyed by fire and by the Fall of 1957, under his guidance, the new church was completed. Father Athans was also instrumental in building a Hellenic Center in 1966, buying picnic grounds and enlarging the church cemetery grounds for the Dover community.

Father Athans had been married to Presbytera Keta (Xanthos) of Brooklyn, NY for almost 70 years. They have two daughters, Geriann, married to Dr. John Athans, and Barbara, married to Les Hoogeveen, four grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.

He had been awarded the titles of Sakellarios by Bishop Athenagoras in 1957, Hieromnemon by his Eminence Archbishop Iacovos in 1965, Economou by his Eminence Archbishop Iacovos in 1974, and Protopresbyter by Patriarch Demetrios in 1980. During his tenure in Dover, Father Athans served on many committees including the Citizens Advisory Council, Advisory Council on Alcohol Abuse in NH, the New England Clergy Brotherhood, St. Andrew, where he served as Treasurer and Vice President, the Dover Industrial Development Authority, where he served as Treasurer, and the Wentworth Douglas Hospital Pharmaceutical Investigatory Committee. In 2015, he received the Spiritual Care Award from Wentworth-Douglas Hospital, and the Ministry Award from the Greek Orthodox Metropolis of Boston.

He served as chaplain at the University of New Hampshire for 25 years and taught for 15 years in the department of Classics at UNH.

Father Athans retired in 1995 after 40 years of service to the Annunciation in Dover NH and subsequently served the neighboring community of the Dormition of the Virgin Mary in Somersworth, NH for 15 years.

Along with his parents, Father Athans is predeceased by his siblings John and Zaharoula.

Left to cherish his memory is his loving wife, Keta Athans; children, Geriann Athans, and husband, Dr. John Athans, of Dover, NH and Barbara Athans-Hoogeveen and husband, Les Hoogeveen, of Dover, NH; siblings, Sotiris, and Nicholas, both of Greece, sister-in-law Stella, of Seattle, WA; four grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and a host of nieces, nephews, extended family members and friends.

Family and Friends are called to visit on Friday, December 27, 2024, from 5 PM – 8 PM at the Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church, 93 Locust St, Dover, NH 03820. The Trisagion will be prayed at 6 PM on Friday. Divine Liturgy will be on Saturday, December 28, 2024, at 9 AM, followed by a visitation from 10 – 11 AM, followed by a Funeral Service at 11 AM. All Services will be officiated at The Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church in Dover.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church of Dover or the Dormition of the Virgin Mary Greek Orthodox Church of Somersworth. Envelopes will be available at the church. To leave an online condolence for the family, please visit www.taskerfuneralservice.com.

Rev. John Robert Lilly (STH ’58, GRS ’63)

By sthalum January 12th, 2025 in Alumni/ae Deaths

The following obituary was originally posted by James H. Delaney and Son Funeral Home and can be found here. 

It is said of John R. Lilly that he took an interest in every person he met. He passed away at age 91, at his home in Walpole, Massachusetts, surrounded by his loving family. 

Born in Stoneham, Massachusetts on January 18, 1933, he was the son of George and Eleanor Louise (Hamlin) Lilly. Education was very important to John throughout his life. Following graduation from Melrose High School in 1951, as the first in his family to go to college, he attended the University of Massachusetts at Amherst, earning a B.A. in History. During his time there, he developed an intense interest in helping others and was inspired to join the ministry. This led him to embark on a further educational journey, at Boston University’s School of Theology. He earned a Master of Divinity degree and then immediately pursued a PhD in Social Ethics while serving as a Pastor at the South Walpole United Methodist church. After John completed all of his PhD coursework, Bishop James Mathews offered him an ambitious assignment: to start a new church in Boston that would combine multiple disparate congregations. It proved too important to pass up. John left his dissertation unfinished in order to start Old West Church near Boston’s government center, where he succeeded in creating a warm and welcoming community. 

John’s eagerness to make a difference in the world was also driven in part by making Martin Luther King, Jr.’s acquaintance while at Boston University and becoming involved in the Civil Rights Movement. John ultimately attended numerous marches with Dr. King, including the famous 1963 march on Washington. John’s interest in social ethics would drive a life-long devotion to promoting civil rights and social justice. 

John subsequently served as pastor of multiple churches – in Brookline, Newton and Lexington supported by his beloved wife Shirley, whom he married in 1958. In 1970, John made a bold career change to work at the Foxboro Company, then a Fortune 500 company. But he never stopped caring about people or trying to make a difference in their lives. He ended up running the company’s educational services department and then eventually transitioned to an organizational development/industrial psychology role, being dispatched around the globe to solve conflicts, relying on his pastoral counseling skills, and ultimately ending his career there working for the office of the president, liaising with key figures in Washington, D.C. 

Following a stint as an executive career coach at Right Management Associates in Providence, John returned to the church. He and Shirley had been very active members of United Church in Walpole, which they ultimately attended for 40+ years, and he was persuaded to transfer his credentials from the Methodist church to the United Church of Christ. He became the Minister of Pastoral Care at the First Congregational Church in Natick, serving with his good friend, Reverend Victoria Alford Guest. And recently he was named Pastor Emeritus of United Church in Walpole. 

Even when he wasn’t a full-time pastor, John always gave back, often by mentoring new pastors. And one of his great joys was speaking each year with the recipients of the Rev. John R. Lilly Endowed Scholarship Fund at Boston University School of Theology, which was established in his honor by the Lilly family, through The SJL Foundation. The endowed scholarship will ensure that future theology students have the resources necessary to benefit from the opportunities made possible through a Boston University education in both their faith and their academic endeavors. 

It was not all work for John. Travel was one of John’s many passions. Throughout their 66-year marriage, John and Shirley loved to travel, and the list of countries they have visited is quite long – from an African safari when John was 80, to climbing the Great Wall of China in 1994, to visiting many other countries throughout Europe, Asia and the Middle East. He loved engaging with other cultures, appreciating their art, architecture, and music, trying new cuisines, spending time with good friends and nurturing his excellent photography skills. Even more beloved were family vacations with children and grandchildren in Wellfleet and St. John, USVI, where he passed on a love of boogie boarding and snorkeling. 

John remained a life-long learner with many interests, including a love of reading—both fiction and non-fiction. He also enjoyed music, especially the Boston Symphony Orchestra. And he loved being active. He and his family were members of the White Mountain Ski Runners in North Conway, NH, where he enjoyed cross-country skiing. He was also a keen tennis player. 

Throughout his life, John dedicated himself to helping and supporting others in whatever ways he could. Even during his recent hospital stay at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, John always took the time to get to know the nurses’ names, where they studied, about their kids, and introduced Shirley to them like old friends. His love of and support of mankind will be sorely missed.

Most of all, he will be missed as a loving husband, father and grandfather who regularly attended his granddaughters’ soccer games, dance recitals, choral concerts and high school graduation. Above all else, family was the most important to him. 

Beloved husband of Shirley A. (Polk) Lilly.

Loving father of Susan Lilly and her husband Michael Malinoski of Sudbury, and Jeffrey Lilly of Walpole.

Cherished grandfather of Nicole Malinoski and Sarah Malinoski.

Brother of George D. Lilly and his wife Denise of Santa Barbara, California, and Dana Lilly and his late wife Ellen of Venice, Florida. 

Beloved uncle of many nieces and nephews.

All are invited to attend John’s Celebration of Life at United Church in Walpole, 30 Common Street, Walpole, Massachusetts on Saturday, January 4, 2025, at 11:00 am. To celebrate John’s life, the family requests that attendees wear bright colors. Interment will take place privately at a later date. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in John's name may be made to United Church in Walpole, P.O. Box 287, Walpole, MA 02081, noting JWM on the memo line (for Justice and Witness Ministries, a program to promote understanding of social issues).

Rev. Sanford Fasth, (DGE ’53, Questrom ’55, STH ’58)

By sthalum January 12th, 2025 in Alumni/ae Deaths

The following obituary was originally posted by Wareham Week and can be found here. 

Rev. Sanford "Sandy" Fasth, 91, of Wareham, died Sunday, December 22, 204 at Charlton Memorial Hospital in Fall River. He was the husband of Ginny W. (Wilson) Fasth and were married for 66 years.

Rev. Fasth was born in Schenectady, NY and was the son of the late Carl and Ida Fasth. He received his BS in Business from Boston University, followed by his master's degree from Boston University School of Theology.

Rev. Fasth's first assignment was the First Congregational Church in Kensington, NH where he married his wife Ginny on Thanksgiving Day in 1958. He then was pastor at the First Congregational Church in Westminster, the Federated Community Church in Hampden, then the First Congregational Church in Wareham where he served from 1980 until his retirement in 1998.

He enjoyed watching baseball, reading and riding his bicycle.

Survivors include his wife Ginny of Wareham; his children, Rebecca Marshall of Bangor, ME, and Merl Fasth of E. Longmeadow; his grandchildren, Gregg, Jenna and Evan. Also surviving are many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his siblings, the late Norman Fasth, Betty McIntosh, Doris Mathiesen and Jane Rogers.

Graveside services in Prospect Hill Cemetery, Hampden, MA will take place in the spring.

Arrangements by Chapman Funerals & Cremations – Wareham. To leave a message of condolence visit: www.chapmanfuneral.com.