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Paul Thayer

Clinical Associate Professor

Dr. Paul Thayer teaches the family-centered care courses in the Child Life & Family-Centered Care program at Boston University Wheelock College of Education & Human Development. A clinical associate professor, his areas of expertise include grief and loss, professional ethics, and family studies. Before joining BU Wheelock, he was a pediatric hospice director.

Pronouns: he/him

Doctor of Ministry, Religion, Psychology, and Culture, Boston University
MDiv, Yale University
MA, Counseling Psychology, Assumption College
BA, Psychology, University of Connecticut

Passi, J., Thayer, P., Littlebear, J., & Parker-Katz, M. (2026). Family engagement in education: Inclusive approaches for creating collaborative and equitable school communities. Routledge.

Thayer, P. (2008). The impact of church closings on Catholic adolescents: Implications for clergy, church leaders, and parents. Saarbrucken, Germany: VDM Publishing

Thayer, P. (2007). But is it a field? Child Life Bulletin, 25(3).

Thayer, P. (2007). Entering the zone of ethical proximal development: The child life specialist as a teacher of ethics. Child Life Bulletin, 25(2).

Thayer, P., Ashworth, K., O’Brien, A., Harris, A. & Wallensack, K. (2006). Child life services: Right or privilege? Child Life Bulletin, 24(4), pp. 1-5.

Thayer, P. (2006). Navigating family relationships in child life. Child Life Focus. 24(3) pp. 1-8.

Thayer, P. & Nee, R. (2008). Spiritual care of children and families. In Ann Armstrong-Dailey & Sarah Zarbock (Eds). Hospice care for children, 3rd ed. New York: Oxford University Press.

Faulkner, K., Thayer, P., & Coulter, D. (2006) Neurological and neuromuscular symptoms. In Oxford textbook of pediatric palliative care. New York: Oxford University Press.

Thayer, P. (2001). Spiritual care of children and parents. In A. Armstrong Dailey, & S. Goltzer, (Eds.), Hospice care for children, 2nd ed. New York: Oxford University Press.

Thayer, P. (2007). Professional boundaries in hospice care. Hospice Education Network.

Thayer, P. (2007). Caring for children of adult hospice patients. Hospice Education Network.