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There are 11 comments on Students Welcome Gender Neutral Housing

    1. I fully approve of gender neutral housing, as well as pushing for the gender neutral bathrooms for the sake of fairness and equality. But I just want you to know that the statement ” if everyone else is doing it, then it must be right” is a very faulty way of thinking. We should always question society even if things seem right. Otherwise things like slavery would have never been abolished. Similarly, if everyone committed murder, that wouldn’t make them all “right.”

      1. Christie, dear, I believe Peter here was using sarcasm. In fact he may be referencing the specific section that reads:

        “Zamojski says that when he announced the news to resident assistants during a training session, they seemed pleased with the policy change. “There had been an expectation that it would happen,” he says. “Now that it has, everyone’s just going with it.”

        Try and not get so worked up–you jumped to a slavery analogy? And then a murder analogy? Come on.

        1. Dorm preference has nothing to do with marriage or children; it has to do with people being comfortable in their own living spaces.

          So, sure, if their offspring is also an admitted student to BU, they could share a room. Otherwise, I’m going to go with, “Shhhhh, the adults are talking.”

    1. It’s all semantics. At a granular level, it might be because co-ed is the opposite of single-sex… whereas gender neutral is… well, neutral. The latter highlights that the policy is opt-*in*, not opt-out.

  1. I find this all very confusing. Where does it end? There are species that self propagate and are gender neutral, but is that really where our culture is headed? God created our bodies, and I have to think He had a plan from the start.

    I do not want anyone to be bullied, and perhaps Scott’s solution is the best one: single rooms. Life is hard enough.

    1. Why not treat everyone equally and give them to same options of gender neutral housing? No one is forcing you to live with someone you don’t want to, they’re just giving you more options so you don’t need to pay for a single with a bathroom (which are very expensive at BU) and can bond with roommates who make you feel comfortable?

    2. I think the point is that it’s optional for those people who really prefer gender neutral housing. For those who don’t, it doesn’t really effect them because they can still live with whoever they want. Many people here believe our “culture is headed” in a positive direction. Maybe you can’t understand the hardships of someone who feels they were born a different gender than their true identity, but the point is that this university should be understanding and accommodating so that everyone feels comfortable.

      Just as this university makes you feel comfortable believing and practicing your religious beliefs, it will also work to make everyone else comfortable. A University is a place where differences are embraced and fostered for the benefit of society as a whole.

    3. Don’t worry, Lynne; I’m pretty sure housing options don’t change our biology such that we automatically become capable of parthenogenesis. I’m glad you don’t support bullying, but I think your “solution” is a bit off base. Segregating the potential target of bullying is not the solution. Expecting people to treat every human being with respect and tolerance and not accepting less, is.

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