Navigating College Life: Reflections and Insights from an Upperclassman
Navigating College Life: Reflections and Insights from an Upperclassman
What I’ve learned in my first two years of college
I’m blessed to have had an amazing college experience at Boston University thus far. The amount of growth and independence I’ve gained from being in the city and getting to interact with like-minded people has really allowed me to mature in a way I wasn’t able to during high school. With that being said, my college experience has been full of lessons that have helped me get to where I am today. There is a long list of these lessons, but here are tips that have stood out to me along the way.
First, be aware that you might enter college set on a specific career path or feel confident that your major is something you could see yourself applying to your future career. On the other hand, you might have no idea what you want to do with your life. Either of which is completely fine—you will find your path. I’d say about 50 percent of my friend group (from BU) has done 180-degree switches in their major (e.g., premed to business) or even picked a niche major relating to their original. Think of college like a crutch. It’s what will hold you up while you go through that trial-and-error process. Stressful situations will happen, and setbacks are expected. Embrace it.
Next, I learned the importance of finding a professor to be your mentor. Pick someone you are comfortable with and can identify with in your field. Once you establish a working relationship and bond with them, grab coffee with them as often as you can. Ask about their background, their path, and what their setbacks were in the field. Outside of the classroom, you have the opportunity to keep the conversation genuine, so use it to your advantage. I’ve met many professors who are so happy to share the journey that got them to where they are today—a vast majority of them have had experience in the field before they became professors.
Finally, be willing to take chances and go beyond your comfort zone. I mean it. Do it! I joined women’s rugby during my freshman year. Did I know anyone on the team? No. Did I know how to play? No. But learning was the best part of it. I threw myself into a challenge and made memories that will last a lifetime. That brings me to a related point, which is to be willing to go it alone. You don’t always need a buddy. You might be invited to an event and want to bring the same plus one you always do. Sometimes, you are invited alone for a reason. Don’t let what feels comfortable consume you. Enter the room alone. Show up alone, and you will learn to be confident. All this being said, college is meant to try new things, but if you don’t like something, don’t force yourself to keep up with it. Focus on the things that interest you, participate in clubs you’re interested in, grab coffee with people you enjoy, and always be sure to reserve time for yourself.
Remember, this is a marathon, not a sprint—definitely don’t sprint.
Going into my third year of college, I can say that time does fly by. That being said, I still have so much to look forward to. My first two years at BU were experimental, so now it’s time to officially lock in and explore a set career path and pursue my interests. With a lot of trial and error, I feel confident to explore the marketing and advertising industry and gain more experience within it.
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