ABSTRACT: A perennial problem in the philosophy of love has centered around what it is to love persons qua persons. Plato has usually been interpreted as believing that when we love we are attaching ourselves to qualities that inhere in the objects of our love and that these qualities transcend the objects. Vlastos has argued, along with Nussbaum, Price and many others that such an account tells against a true love of persons as unique and irreplaceable individuals. I argue that Platos account of love as present in the Lysis and Symposium is not so easily rejected. My concern is to show both that Plato can meet the objections and that his theory can still offer helpful insights into the understanding of love in our lives. In particular, I will identify two manners of loving persons; one which is context and individual specific, and another which might be termed metaphysical, thereby preserving aspects of the Platonic ascent of love. I will further argue that the two aspects are often non-controversially linked, and that such linking helps explain something of the mysterious nature of love.
A theory of love should explain that we love a person; that a person is in some way the paradigmatic focus of our love. Moreover, it is qua person that the beloved is loved and not just as bearer of loveable qualities or attributes, in other words, love is directed at the totality of the beloved and not identifiable (solely) with certain aspects of a person. As a result such love is held to be incompatible with the easy interchangeability of the beloved with some other with similar or higher qualities and attributes. This is not to say that love is not transferable from one beloved to another but only that such transferability is subject to loss of the unique and irreplaceable individuality (personhood) of a particular beloved.(1)
This particular account of what a theory of love should provide is deemed by numerous philosophers to amount to a knock-down case against any theory of love which identifies what is loved as some complex of qualities/attributes or characteristics of a beloved.(2) Plato is the central figure who is held to have missed these features of love by supposing that what we really love in loving a person are their qualities of Beauty and Goodness. However, the critique goes a lot further and applies equally to any conception of agapistic love, or indeed to any theory of disinterested compassion-love (as in Buddhism). This is so because (aside from the theological difficulty of understanding any love relation as genuine because it is commanded) when we consider our grounds for loving another person as posited by the fact that he/she is a child of God, or as a divine soul made by God, or in terms of the universality, anonymity and ready replaceability of each and every beloved, we are not deemed to be loving such persons as persons. Rather we are loving them because God commanded us to do so, or because they are Gods children, or because they have immortal souls. In each case precisely because the love is directed towards all and thus everyone is loved, one instance of love is exactly the same as all others; each instance is identical to, and replaceable by, any other, and thus in a sense, the love is anonymous and universal, independent of any of the particular features which render the person individual and unique.(3)
In this paper I will look carefully at the Platonic account of eros in order to ascertain just how far these general criticisms hold water. We must however, in dealing with Platos theory of eros, consider a further set of criticisms specific to the Platonic project, namely, the view that Platonic eros is egocentric and acquisitive. However, in this essay I shall not just engage in historical exegesis in order to correct past misunderstandings of Plato, but rather I will be using Platos work as an example of how we might better understand the nature of love in our own lives.
Platos theory of love is presented in numerous dialogues but for the purposes of this paper I will restrict myself to considering only the Lysis and Symposium. I will consider various interpretations of Platos writings and dismiss many of the criticisms of Platonic love, and I will present a Platonic account of love which goes a long way towards capturing something of the mysterious nature of love by identifying two separate but overlapping ways of loving.
II. The Lysis
The subject matter of the Lysis is a discussion of philia. Philia is the general term in Greek for friendship, but it is quite clear that in the Lysis and generally within the Greek philosophical tradition its meaning is not exhausted by the modern English word friendship. It is often used interchangeably with eros, but it also comprises the feelings of affection one has with regard to things, as well as to familial love (storge) and even captures some aspects of desire.
In the Lysis, Plato employs the terms, eran, philein, agapan, epithumein and peri pollou poiesthai, sometimes interchangeably, but certainly as loosely demarcated but closely related subsets of philia. At 215a-d the terms agapan, philein and peri pollou poiesthai are used interchangeably.(4) And importantly even before the philia group of terms are introduced in the text, and the attraction of friends is settled as the initial topic of discussion, the conversation employs for the most part the eros group of words (204-206a). The background to the discussion is markedly erotic and the subsequent discussion is stamped throughout by the sexual orientation of the opening. In fact, the philia group is used exclusively only in the discussion of familial love between 207-210 and in the attempt to spell out a meaning for what is dear (211e-213d).(5) In the remaining sections, from 214 through to the close, there is a mixture of all the terms mentioned above, sometimes used interchangeably, at other times with only subtle changes of meaning. The point to be taken from this is in substantial accord with Kenneth Dovers claim that philia and eros do not designate separate realms of meaning, but that there is a high degree of overlapping between the two terms.(6) Thus, since I will be assuming that the doctrine of love in both the Lysis and the Symposium is one and the same, these prefatory remarks should forestall any objections that I am conflating two separate doctrines.
The Lysis provides us with a structural and analytic account of loving or befriending. In this dialogue Socrates conceives of loving as comprising three elements; a lover or subject who loves, an activity-loving-(which in the Lysis is captured by the idea of actively engaging in making something dear to oneself, not just a recognition of value but the investing of [further] value in something over time) and an object of love or beloved.
The motivational force which as it were enables the lover to love is grounded in the ontological endeia (lack) of the person. Because persons are not self-sufficient, agents exhibit desire which seeks out objects and subjects to fulfill the lacks which are integral to our natures. On the existential level lack or need is experienced in the desire for a plurality of things, including the need for a lover or friend.
Corresponding to the nature of desire and lack Socrates also thinks that the object of love (whatever object) must also be loveable. In other words, there must be something in the nature of the object of love which elicits the loving of the lover. This is not to deny that the lover actively invests value in the beloved but rather is posited as a partial explanation for the grounds of attraction. Many objects are valuable in themselves but are not loved in the special sense of the relation. In other words the recognition of value is not sufficient to characterise the special relationship of love. In love recognition of value requires an activity on the part of the lover which maintains and deepens through valuation the relation with the beloved.
It is surprising nevertheless that neither in the Lysis nor in Diotimas or Socrates speech in the Symposium do we receive any full articulation of the activities of loving; this in part explains the unease many commentators have had with Platos theory of eros.(7) However, Platos preoccupation in both the Lysis and the Symposium is with the proton philon or first (final) object of love and the phenomenon of love is discussed only insofar as it illuminates something of the path to that object. Throughout the two dialogues are determined by that goal.(8)
Having established the logical grammar of philia in the Lysis that philia is the name of a relation and that it comprises a subject who loves, an activity of loving (couched in terms of rendering and maintaining something as dear) and an object which is loved but which also elicits our love, Socrates dialectical questioning focuses on the nature of the relation between subject and object of love. Kosman, in what is still the most penetrating analysis of Platos views on love, correctly identifies the crucial elements of the theory as presented in the Lysis.(9) Having identified what is loved in terms of ontological endeia Kosman writes:
When Socrates finally suggests that what persons actually lack is the plenitude of the first (final) object of love, the proton philon, he goes on highly suggestively to identify a relationship between the soul and the proton philon. He does so by tantalizingly (and without a rigorous argument) pushing the notion that the real meaning of our ontological lack resides in what is phusei oikeion, what belongs to us naturally. Kosman once again captures the point brilliantly:
The similarity between the position outlined here and that presented by Aristophanes in the Symposium is especially noteworthy, in particular where he says that Eros is a great god who leads us eis to oikeion , eis ten archaian phusin.
While the Lysis formally ends in aporia it has covered much groundwork. It has established the logical grammar of philia as being the name of a relation; it has presented the formal structure of any philia relation,(12) in terms of a befriender, a befriending and a befriended; it has identified but not articulated the active on-going valuation which characterises the activity of befriending; and it has managed to suggestively tie up a nexus of ideas which intrinsically link the ontological lack of the befriended with an organic wholeness which the befriender attempts to overcome by loving the friend. [Moreover, the organic wholeness which is described as our true nature is both subject and object of love.] However, the emphasis of the dialogue lies in the vertical dimension of philia which takes the befriender in the direction of the transcendent object of love the proton philon. While this is well-recognised it is complimented by the notion that there is an intrinsic relation between this transcendent object of love and our original nature. This insight will be of some importance later in the paper.
The importance of the Lysis in Platos articulation of a theory of love cannot be overestimated. Indeed it provides a kind of prolegomena to the account in the Symposium (rendered by Diotima via Socrates) which takes up the aporetic close of the Lysis by continuing to illuminate further the nature of the proton philon. That the two dialogues are intimately linked is clear when we look at the dialectical interchange between Socrates and Agathon at Symposium 198b-201d. Here we get an almost verbatim rendition of the arguments in the Lysis which establish the logical grammar of eros as a relation and its structural elements, rendered now in the language of eros, as lover, loving and beloved. It is this analytic that provides the truth conditions for the subsequent myth of eros and afterwards the elaboration of the lower and higher mysteries of love.
III. The Dialectical Interchange Between Socrates and Agathon
As I have pointed out the preliminary truth conditions for the proper discussion of love had been settled in the Lysis and repeated almost verbatim in the Symposium. I will briefly rehearse the manner in which they are dramatised in the Symposium and show how they affect the account given there of the nature of love and the lower and higher mysteries of love.
The purpose of encomia is to render a eulogy or good word. In the Symposium the encomia will be to Eros, but Socrates immediately changes the ground rules adhered to by the other speakers. For Socrates, an encomia, or eulogy, must be true for if it were not true it would not be good. Hence, he will deliver a eulogy which picks out the fairest of the facts about eros and praise them (198d5-7). [He will not focus on the destructive passion of eros so vividly portrayed in Homers Iliad and Odyssey, and by Plato as the eros turannos of the Politeia.]
Before presenting the encomia proper developed through Diotima Socrates takes up the logical grammar of eros in his interchange with Agathon. Socrates asks Agathon:
This is the same question asked in the Lysis. Formally it seems as if Socrates is asking whether or not eros is intentional that eros is eros of something. But this is not quite the point as Socrates goes on to suggest by amplifying his question. Socrates clarification continues:
Socrates is thus highlighting that Eros like the term Father is the name for a relation. Moreover, it is the name for a relation which comprises the lover, the activity of loving and the beloved (see 200e-210a).
The lover desires the object of his/her love and thus lacks that object, but it is this lack that explains the very phenomenon of desire. We desire because we lack. Moreover, this phenomenon has both a temporal and an eternal element.
Desire is not just for something lacked but for the preservation of what good we may achieve and which might be taken away. The point Socrates is making is fundamentally that desire has something of the infinite in its nature. The only thing that could possibly satisfy fully and completely the nature of a desirous and thus lacking being is the eternal satisfaction of desire or from a slightly different perspective the complete cessation of all desire. Such could only be found in a world transcendent object of desire which is itself a pleroma, because the satisfaction of all temporal desires is capable of being lost; moreover, because we desire ultimately such an object, we desire to become that object or at least to be in the presence of that object. ( On one reading at least this might be portrayed in Sartrean terms as the desire of the pour-soi to become a pour-soi/en-soi.)
IV. The Lower and Higher Mysteries
Having established these distinctions Socrates introduces Diotima of Mantinaea as source for the doctrine of eros to be presented. Mythically eros is the name of the relation which exists between the temporal and the eternal, the human and the Divine. That Eros cannot be God is proven by the fact that human beings love and they establish the relation of love via desire which is grounded in lack. Since it is axiomatic that the Divine lacks nothings, love cannot be a Divinity. Rather love is said to be the great Daimon which unites the disparate orders of the real, or if not unites, at least establishes the relation between them.
Because Eros is the name for a relation, it occupies the metaxy, that is whatever is intermediate, whether that be conceived of as opinion, lying intermediate between error and truth, or the realm between mortals and the Divine. Eros takes from its mother the brute fact that it is a relation between the Divine and the human, the Heavens and the world, and, it is intimated by Plato, the passive intuition of this relation, and the element of lack. From its father it derives its capacities to scheme, hunt, create and fashion. In other words it derives its active or desirous element from the masculine side of its parentage, as is suggested also by the various meanings of poros path, way, passage, but also resource. The active element provides the impetus to overcoming lack.
The dialectical interchange between Socrates and Agathon re-establishes the logical grammar of eros together with a structural account of what eros involves just as had been done in the Lysis. The myth relates these logical categories of eros into the framework which establishes the relation between the human and the Divine. As a matter of continuity Diotima will present a vision of the manner in which Eros via desire is always attempting to satiate lack and how such satiation requires a transcendent object of Eros.(13)
Diotima identifies the object of love as having or being in the presence of Beauty, following her question what is the love of the lover of beautiful things? (204d6 Loeb. All references to the Symposium in this paper are to the Loeb translation.) Quickly she identifies the beautiful and the good. However, drawing upon Aristophanesspeech it is claimed that the lover is indeed searching for completion/fulfilment with the other half (205e) but only if that fulfilment is deemed good.
Collecting the analysis provided by the dialectical interchange with Agathon and the myth Diotima suggests that the essential motivation proper to love is that " love loves the good to be ones own forever." (206a12-13)
Everyone qua lover is lover of the good. The method of achieving the good by the lover "is procreation in what is beautiful with the body and soul." (206b8-9)
It is at this point in the dialogue that a very new emphasis is placed on eros. Whereas before eros had been identified primarily in terms of the lovers lack and the lovers desires to fill these lacks, it now takes on a distinctively poetic role in including desires for begetting and bringing to birth.(14) Moreover, the two elements of love considered as lack and as desire to produce are maintained at each level of the ladder of love. Moreover, this is a corollary of the two aspects of eros identified in the myth of love where on one side love lacks its object and on the other it provides a means of achieving its object.
Primarily eros (in the lower mysteries) is creative according to its thirst for immortality which is carried out through begetting. Just as in the animal kingdom a vicarious immortality is preserved through the propagation of offspring, so too at the human level, the creative desire to bring forth children, is thought to be indicative of this desire for immortality. This is conceived of in terms of a general principle or law of nature. However, while animals are restricted in the sense that this is the only form of immortality open to them, humans can achieve a vicarious immortality in other ways according to their natural powers. So humans are in love with what is immortal (208e2-3) and achieve it according to both body and soul.
From here Diotima leads Socrates ever upward in the so-called Higher Mysteries of love moving from love of a beautiful body to the vision of the Beautiful in itself.
V. The Critique
The criticisms of the Platonic theory of love has a long and distinguished pedigree, and as I have argued the criticisms are applicable to any theory of love which identifies what is loved in loving others as situated in anything other than the integral individual personhood of persons, whether that be conceived of in terms of a persons qualities, attributes, characteristics or in terms of a religious command and its correlative account of why we ought to love persons, or indeed to the notions of disinterested love or compassion.
In general, the following sorts of criticisms are found:
(a) Platonic love is acquisitive.
To these general criticisms can be added a more specific one: Platonic love devalues persons. The list of philosophers who have argued against Platos theory of love is impressive and includes Nygren, Vlastos, Nussbaum, Singer, Soble, and Solomon.(15)
The voices which have stood out in favour of the Platonic view are few and even when they have attempted to vindicate Platos theory they have for the most part done so unconvincingly. Cornford and Markus attempted to show that Platos theory of eros is compatible with the Christian ideal of love-agape (as has Brentlinger), but even though they are convincing in their appeals, this fails to vindicate the Platonic theory, for as I have pointed out, the Christian view of agape suffers from the central problem that because it is commanded, universal and substitutable it cannot account for the unique and irreplaceable love which we have for special individuals.(16) So aside from the central merits these arguments have in establishing the compatibility of Platonic eros with Christian agape the crucial objection still stands.
Brentlinger in arguing that Platonic eros cannot profitably be easily distinguished from Christian agape provides a series of reflections which adequately resist the criticisms that Platonic eros is egocentric and acquisitive but does not convincingly show that Platos theory does not devalue persons. And the most penetrating analysis to date by Kosman, while also showing that Platonic eros is not narrowly egoistic or acquisitive and that it is compatible with love of persons qua persons, fails to articulate an answer to the Symposiums doctrine that persons are to be considered a small thing in comparison to love of the Good and Beautiful.
Let us rehearse the arguments here.
Because Plato identifies the origins of love in ontological lack and subsequent operative desires to fill this lack, it is claimed that eros is essentially acquisitive. It seeks to appropriate the good for oneself and this is held to be incompatible with loving the other for his/her own sake. This argument is most forcefully pursued by Nygren.(17) Abstracting from Plato here it can be argued that this is a rather futile criticism because it fails to capture the notion that we can have different kinds of desires, some selfish and some unselfish. For example, I can legitimately desire a better world not just for myself but for others and even for future generations. I can also desire the well-being of another person without that well-being being the source of any specific positive outcome for myself, and so for many benevolent other-concerned desires. Desire, therefore, is not essentially acquisitive.
But perhaps the objection is not so much general as specific to Plato. Thus, the claim will be that the Platonic theory of eros as articulated in the Dialogues is such that it is presented in a way which does not allow for this general response. Nygren writes:
Similarly, Singer suggests:
These sorts of objections are, however, not fair to Plato. One of the problems which issues in these kinds of criticisms is grounded in a point of scholarship. It is often supposed that Socrates talks about the object of love being possessed by the lover (200d 10-11). However, the English term possess is an inadequate rendition of the more neutral Greek echein. Echein and its derivatives refer to having without the emphasis of owning and possessiveness, and thus exclusivity. We, for example, talk of having a friend, even a best friend, without implying in any way that we own or possess the friend. Indeed in the Symposium Plato describes the relationship between desire and the good not just in terms of having (echein) but often in terms of the word parontas (being in the presence of). This latter term captures the transcendent quality of the good without implying that it is subject to possession by a lover. Moreover, it leaves open the alternative sketch of desire presented above whereby we can desire the good for another without any stigma of acquisitiveness.
A similar ambiguity attaches itself to the idea that what is loved are good or beautiful things". Here the acquisitive aspects of Platonic love are highlighted by the idea that the lover desires good or beautiful things for him/herself. Given that Diotima appeals to the notion of participation it is perhaps not useful to maintain this translation. To better capture the force of the Platonic argument, the translation should be the good or beautiful as it inheres in things. Once again this suggests that there is not a relationship of possessiveness attached to the relationship with the good and beautiful thus leaving open the notion that a more disinterested element can be present in desire. [The ambiguity is difficult to dispel, however, as Plato in discussing the genesis of love and its transcending strains does indeed suggest that at one stage desire is for or of beautiful things. However, this refers to the genesis of love in finding objects and qualities which fill lacks. At later stages, love is clearly identified as of or for the qualities that inhere in things and not just to the things themselves. In what sense this can be seen as acquisitive possessiveness is at the least very unclear.
Platos theory of eros is also held to be egocentric. This objection also fails on grounds analogous to the acquisitiveness criticism. Whereas the acquisitive objection holds that Platos account of love is determined by possession of the object of love and thus incompatible with loving another for his/her own sake, the egocentric objection pushes this criticism somewhat further by claiming that the motivation and activities of all Platonic love is focused on the self. Again the criticism focuses on the relationship between lack, desire, and the good/beautiful. However, it has rightly been pointed out by Brentlinger that Plato does not make desire and love synonymous:
Indeed this seems fairly obvious. I can clearly desire many objects without thereby loving them. Love, however, includes desire both in terms of setting on an object to be loved and in terms of desiring to "give" or "procreate" in the presence of the Good/Beautiful. Love is the name of a relation which is characterised partly in terms of desire, but includes active valuation and recognition. Moreover, it is precisely the egocentric interpretation of the lack/desire model which renders incomprehensible the crucial move in the Symposium between the lack/desire conception of the genesis of eros and the alternative vision that because all persons are pregnant in body and soul they desire to give/procreate in goodness and beauty. Once again this opens up the perspective which enables love to be considered in terms of non-egocentric desires.
Platonic love is said to be non-personal. By this most commentators have meant that because eros is focused on the good/beautiful and thus to qualities which inhere in individuals, it is therefore only accidental that we love persons. In other words, persons qua persons are not the objects of love. In loving a person for his/her qualities we are loving, as Vlastos put it: "that abstract version of persons which consists of the complex of their best qualities."(21) to which he adds:
Since persons in their concreteness are thinking, feeling, wishing, hoping, fearing beings, to think of love for them as love of objectifications of excellence is to fail to make the thought of them as subjects central to what is felt for them in love.(22)
The intuition that somehow the person loved is irreplaceable and unique and loved as such is deemed to be missing from the Platonic theory.
This is a serious objection if our intuitions and experiences of love are to be vindicated. One reply might be to show that there is an integral relation between persons and their qualities and thus to exhibit the notion that the qualities are, at least in terms of the beloved, not separable. Thus to adulterate something of Brentlingers analysis(23) we might argue that I love a pint of Guinness and in attempting to say what it is about Guinness that I love, I can point to certain qualities of the pint. I enjoy and love the manner in which it is pulled, its taste, its aroma and its colourful blend of dark and cream. When describing my love of a pint of Guinness this way it is not at all clear that I am saying that I love these properties/attributes/qualities, and that the pint of Guinness is a means to achieving these ends.
But in making these claims about what I love I am doing no such thing; these are things about the pint of Guinness that I love, they are not separable from the pint of Guinness. While I might also love a pint of bitter, also for its taste, its colour, its aroma, these qualities as instantiated are different to those in the pint of Guinness and thus in no way substitutable. In part my love for the pint of Guinness is attributable to historic/cultural circumstances peculiar to my own identity.(24)
Roger Scruton suggests that there is a difference between an emotional reaction to universals and one to particulars.(25) He is no doubt correct. One can, for example, love a universal like justice, caring about it passionately, as an ideal and working tirelessly to achieve justice in ones own life and in the world around one. One also loves a particular person and the kind of attachment one has to that person does indeed seem different. Robert Brown appeals to this distinction in his platonizing conception of love in his book Analysing Love.(26) Brown thinks that love of individuals is to be understood in terms of characteristics or qualities. He argues that we love a particular person because that person exhibits certain qualities in a unique manner. Moreover, this concatenation of qualities, including potential ones, is part of an open-ended commitment to the bearer of these qualities, and thus leaves open the possibility that there may be development of new of different qualities. The universals (the qualities) are loved then as they are exhibited by the subject. In other words there is a symbiotic relationship between the universal qualities which both attract and are loved and the subject within which these qualities inhere.
Now this sort of appeal seems to work quite well for the Platonic theory of eros. By arguing that what is loved in another person is not just qualities but the qualities as exhibited and instantiated in the beloved, one appears to avoid the difficulty that love is non-personal. If the symbiotic relationship between qualities and the subject which instantiates them is maintained one thereby explains the fact that one does love qualities but also persons. Moreover, it also, by appealing to the manner of instantiation, accounts for the historical features which contribute to the development of a love relationship as well as highlighting the uniqueness and irreplaceability of the particular instantiation.
It might nevertheless be thought that the sort of symbiosis appealed to here is still not a love of the whole person.(27) However, aside from the difficulty of saying, let alone knowing, what constitutes a whole person, given that we can scarcely say that about our own self, the symbiotic argument is sufficiently open-ended, because of its appeal to the manner of instantiation, to sway the decision.
However, there is still a more damaging objection to Platos theory of love which does not seem to be capable of being resolved by the above arguments. The previous arguments, which in principle the Platonic theory can address, were arguments which attacked Platos view of love because it was deemed to be impersonal, not of the whole person, replaceable, egocentric and acquisitive. These objections, I believe, have been answered. But in the Symposium Plato seems to say that love of persons is of less value than love of qualities as instantiated in other things and ultimately to the Idea of Beauty/Good.
The issue arises in the context of the transcendent mysteries of love proclaimed by Diotima. Here Diotima after having suggested that the Higher mysteries require both a daimonic nature and a guide argues that certain minimal conditions of beauty must exist in the environment of the initiate before he/she can progress on the ladder of love. I take this to be a consequence of Diotimas requirement that the initiate from youth must encounter beautiful bodies (and because elsewhere Plato insists that a sound environment is a prerequisite to right reasoning see Politeia 491c).
If the environment is suitable the person who is directed correctly must love a particular body and engender beautiful discourse (209a9 b1). This follows from the model that desire has a moment of lack and moment of giving, creativity or bringing to birth. The next stage in the ascent comes when the lover acknowledges that what is beautiful in one body is adelphon or closely related to that in any other body. Moreover, if he seeks beauty in form ( eidei ) he must recognise that the beauty of each individual body is an example of beautiful bodies in general, and unless he is to be guilty of anoia he must come to love all beautiful bodies; and in doing so must also "loosen" his attachment to one particular body considering it to be smikron. This is the first intimation that the transcending strains of eros involve a diminution in attachment to particulars, where the general take precedence over the particular, here specifically the beauty in all bodies over the beauty in one. But Plato will go further. Attention moves from the love of the beauty as it inheres in bodies to love of beauty in a single person, and then to the beauty exhibited generally in all souls. From here the vertical movement goes towards love of learning in general (the sciences), up to the final stage of the ascent which involves the graciously given vision of the Beautiful/Good itself, the transcendent object of love.
The problem becomes particularly acute because at each level of the ascent Plato suggests that certain negative attitudes (kataphronesanta b5-6) must be taken up in respect to the lower instantiations of the beautiful. This means, it would seem, that anything other than the Beautiful itself must be viewed negatively and thus also persons. This is strangely counter-intuitive.
Price has pointed out that the attitudes of disdain or looking upon the lower instantiations of beauty does not thereby render them not beautiful. As he puts it:
Moreover, Price goes on to argue that what Diotima rejects "is an exclusive devotion to some particular instances of beauty and not a liberal attachment to all kinds and instances of beauty."(29) But even if this is true it doesnt seem to do justice to the special nature of ones love for another unique individual.
Price thinks that the ascent can be interpreted
But this seems to run counter to the expressed view of Diotima that one must divest oneself (at least to some extent) of attachment to the particular in favour of the path to transcendent beauty.
The move from the recognition of beauty of soul to that of beauty of laws, institutions, branches of knowledge, philosophy and finally transcendent beauty involves, according to Diotima, a lessening of value for particular instantiation. Price certainly presents an interpretation which gives some weight to the notion that in a certain manner the love of the individual beloved may be preserved throughout the ascent but this is not enough to suggest that the beloved is loved as a unique individual whole person. Price cites as evidence for his view 211b5-7 where Diotima says: "Whenever someone, ascending from these things through loving boys nightly (dia to orthos paiderastein) begins to see that Beauty, he would almost be touching the goal." And he thinks that this "implies that right up at least to beginning of the end of his ascent the lover is still, in a manner, loving a boy."(31)
Moreover, Price finds the strongest evidence for interpreting the ascent as an exercise of personal love in the fact that Diotimas original definition of love involved aiming at:
While I think there is clearly merit in Prices view, it still seems to strain the text because; 1) it does not give sufficient weight to the notion that Diotima thinks there must be negative attitudes taken up in respect to the lower instantations, 2) even if education and communication are still fundamental goals of the ascent it is unclear in what sense the beloved is loved as person, and 3) as I have already pointed out, there are strong reasons for thinking that Plato holds that without having seen Transcendent Beauty, all objects of love cannot be loved truly. Diotima tells us that once the lover has seen transcendent beauty, he will then bring to birth upon the visible manifestations of Beauty not illusions but true examples of virtue 212a5-7. Such truth is clearly supposed to be contrasted with the semblances mentioned earlier in the speech when Diotima is talking about vicarious immortality. It might further be thought that just as it is only after having apprehended transcendent beauty that the lover can beget true virtue (212a7-9). It may be that only then may he be capable of truly loving the particular.
So it would seem that the final objection really does capture what Plato holds to be central to an account of love, and that therefore his theory does fail to accommodate some of our deepest intuitions about love of persons. However, while there is, I think, this inevitable tension in Plato between the concern for the transcendent object of love and love of persons, there may still be a further response which captures yet other intuitions about love.
There is surely a difference between recognising the transcendent object of love as the ultimate source of value and still holding that certain beloveds are still loved as unique individual whole persons.
Plato argues that knowledge of the good implies a kind of identification with that object. Now if we follow this account it might be said that this process of identification marks out what is truly loveable in the other, such that in loving the person we are in some mysterious way loving what that person most essentially is. This was the doctrine espoused in the Lysis that the object of love is immanent in the soul of the persons. As Kosman puts it:
Applying this insight to the love of others, Kosman continues:
The views just expressed do seem to capture something of the mysterious element which many people commonly hold and which in part explains the difficulties even reflective lovers have in saying what it is that they love about the beloved. As presented here it is only a sketch but it goes some way to explain this mysterious element.
Plato scarcely anywhere (except in his description of Alcibiades in the Symposium so brilliantly portrayed by Nussbaum, and in the Phaedrus(34)) discusses in any systematic way the special bond of love between individuals, his focus is always upon the transcendent object of love, but this does not mean that his theory cannot accommodate an account of loving persons qua persons.
VI. An Exhortation
To tie up the various reflections on loving persons in this essay, I would like to present a two-fold conception.
On the one hand love of a particular person is grounded in the historic/existential nature of a couples facticity. By this I mean that the reason I love Fionnuala rather than Siobhan who has the same qualities to a higher level than Fionnuala is explicable partly in terms of the history of my, and her, life. A range of factors partially explain my love including all those factors, sociological, cultural, genetic and historical that go into me being the kind of person I am and the kind of person she is. While it is true to say that I love her qualities, it is better to say that I love the qualities as instantiated in her, in other words, I love her as bearer of these qualities; and it is precisely Fionnuala as bearer of these qualities who is irreplaceable, unique and individual. While I might admire and even love such qualities or others in another person, my attachment of love is to the historical person Fionnuala, and is sustained by among other things commitment and care for her built up over many years of shared fortunes.
But there are other senses somewhat more mysterious. Fionnuala, despite all the things about her that I love, often fails to live up to her own ideals. She is like myself all too human. But part of what I love about her are her commitments to ideals some of which I may not share. But it is not just that I love her commitment to certain ideals but rather that these are partly constitutive of her identity. The failure to love up to them, in no way abrogates that part of her self which identifies with them. She is in part her ideals even if they are so rarely achieved if indeed ever. In a sense I love her fugitive self. This follows one line of Platos reasoning.
Moreover, there is also an important sense in which I love Fionnuala for her very being. Let us imagine, God forbid, that Fionnuala were to be involved in a car accident which left her comatose. She can no longer communicate with me, nor let us suppose, me with her. I still love her. Yet my love is clearly not directed towards her qualities or indeed presently any element of our historical vicissitudes. How is this explicable? It might be thought that I am loving a memory or series of memories of her. But this does not ring true to my experience nor indeed the experiences of people who have actually been in this kind of situation. So it might be that I love her in some form of expectation of her recovery. While this may be true it does not quite capture what it is that I love while she is comatose, and besides the doctors and surgeons have advised me that she will not recover. Further unthinkable decisions for me may have to be made. Part of my own identity lies there with her in the hospital bed. Much of what is meaningful and good for me is also placed in jeopardy by this tragedy.
There is a story told that each person has an immortal soul which is akin to the Divine, and while it is certainly the case that I love Fionnuala as embodied, there seems to be some kind of intuitive rightness to the notion that ultimately what I love in Fionnuala (at least on one level) is her very being, her soul, her spirit. These provide some of the grounds for faith in this matter, though doubtless this element is largely abstracted from her concrete individuality, and may not even be individual. But it may be moreover that while logos fails and mythos takes over there is an experiential appeal to the notion that it is only from the depth of the experience of the loving person that we begin to understand what is involved in loving persons.
NOTES(1) For an account of some of these undergirding intuitions to a theory of love, see, for example, Martha Nussbaum (1986), The Fragility of Goodness, Cambridge, Cambridge University Press; and Stephen Leighton, "What We Love" Australasian Journal of Philosophy, 71, 2, (1993), pp. 145-158. (2) See for example, G. Vlastos, "The Individual as Object of Love in Plato" Platonic Studies, Princeton, 1973. (3) For a useful exploration of these issues see Robert Adams, "The Problem of Total Devotion" in Neera Badhwar (1993) Friendship: A Philosophical Reader, Ithaca, Cornell University Press. (4) See L. Versenyi, "Platos Lysis", Phronesis, 20, (1975), pp. 185-98. (5) Ibid. p. 187 (6) See K. Dover (1978) Greek Homosexuality, Cambridge, Harvard University Press, p. 50. (7) Some hints however may be gleaned from the speeches of Aristophanes and Alcibiades. (8) The issues raised rather quickly here are explored in some detail in my "Platos theory of philia in the Lysis: a defence", Irish Philosophical Journal, 7, (1990), pp. 131-159. (9) A. Kosman, "Platonic Love" in W. H. Werkmeister (ed.)(1976) Facets of Platos Philosophy, Assen, Van Gorcum, pp.53-69. References in this paper are to the version in A. Soble, (ed.) (1989), Eros, Agape and Philia, New York, Paragon House. (10) Kosman, p.155. (11) Ibid. p. 156. (12) This point seems to have been missed by many commentators who tend to emphasise the intentional nature of philia/eros. Among commentators who have emphasised the distinction Plato makes see R. E. Allen, (1991) The Dialogues of Plato, Vol II, The Symposium, New Haven, Yale University Press; R. E. Allen, "A Note on the Elenchus of Agathon: Symposium 199-201", Monist, 50 (1966), pp. 460-3; and D. N. Morgan, (1964), Love: Plato, the Bible and Freud, New Jersey. (13) For a fuller discussion of the arguments underlying the elenchus of Agathon see my "The Dialectical Interchange between Socrates and Agathon" Antichthon, 28 (1994), pp.16-24. (14) See also R. A. Markus " The Dialectic of Eros in Platos Symposium" in G. Vlastos (ed.) (1970) Plato, vol.II, New York, Doubleday, p.138. (15) See A. Nygren, Eros and Agape, (1953), Philadelphia, Westminster Press; G. Vlastos, op.cit.; M. Nussbaum, op.cit.; I. Singer, (1984) The Nature of Love, 3 vols., Chicago, University of Chicago Press; R. C. Solomon, (1981) Love: Emotion, Myth and Metaphor, New York, Doubleday. (16) See R.A. Markus, op. cit.; F.M. Cornford "The Doctrine of Eros in Platos Symposium" in W.K.C. Guthrie (1950), The Unwritten Philosophy, Cambridge, Cambridge University Press; J. Brentlinger, (1970), (ed.) The Symposium of Plato, New Haven, University of Massachusetts Press. References to Brentlinger in this paper are to the version in C. Williams (ed.) (1995), On Love and Friendship, Boston, Jones and Bartlett, pp. 157-166. (17) Op. cit. (18) Op. cit. p.76. (19) Op. cit. p. 89 (20) Op. cit. p. I65. Note 3. (21) Op. cit. p.31. (22) Op. cit. p. 32. (23) See Brentlinger, op. cit. p. 159-160. (24) It might be thought, however, that this argument does not do the work it needs to do in the case of loving another person because while ( for the most part) one pint of Guinness is substitutable for any other pint of Guinness our intuitions about loving other persons do not allow for such easy replaceability. Later in the paper I will show that there are other factical aspects to a love relation with another person which escape this difficulty. Nevertheless for the moment it is suffice to argue that the Platonic theory is not incompatible with the idea that the instantiation of qualities requires an attachment not just to the qualities but also to the objects within which they inhere. (25) R. Scruton, Sexual Desire (1986), London, Weidenfeld and Nicolson. (26) R. Brown, Analyzing Love, (1987), Cambridge, Cambridge University Press, pp. 106-107. (27) See S. Leighton, op. cit. pp. 152-153. (28) A.W. Price, (1989), Love and Friendship in Plato and Aristotle, Oxford, Clarendon Press, p. 44. (29) Ibid. p.44. (30) Ibid. p. 45. (31) Ibid. p. 48. (32) Op. cit. p. 159. (33) Ibid. p. 159. (34) See Nussbaum, op. cit. It is also perhaps worth noting that there is an attempt to spell out something of what loving persons involves, within (contra Nussbaum) the general metaphysics adumbrated in the Symposium, in Platos Phaedrus. However I cannot argue this issue here.