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<\/a><\/p>\nWhen I was just beginning my training at the Center for Religion and Psychotherapy, one our professors shared his experience sitting with a new client.<\/p>\n
As he listened to the many difficulties the man was experiencing, and feeling overwhelmed, he said \u201cyou really need to see a therapist!\u201d <\/a><\/p>\n
Even though he was a pastoral psychotherapist, was sitting in the therapist\u2019s chair, and would receive payment for the work he was doing, he hadn\u2019t yet developed an identity he could claim as his own. He hadn\u2019t developed an identity that let him be a psychologist and a pastor, which would let him provide the pastoral counseling that would benefit those who came to him.<\/p>\n
Students and consultants often ask me how to develop such a professional identity. In this article and the two to follow, I\u2019ll explain the three aspects of becoming what you are trained to practice:<\/p>\n
In this article we\u2019ll discuss number 1, because you can\u2019t move on to step 2 or 3 without it.\u00a0<\/p>\n
The \u201cpastoral\u201d in pastoral psychotherapy or counseling has to mean something to you. It might mean something related to call or it may indicate the context in which you will embody your training. But it also needs to mean something in terms of your faith or religious tradition.<\/p>\n
So what does pastoral mean in your tradition?<\/p>\n
If you are Christian and Methodist, what do you know about Christianity\u2019s historical use of the term and how the Methodist denomination has understood the term? What does this history mean for you as you live into your pastoral role, whether providing care or counseling?<\/p>\n
Or, if you are Jewish and Reformed, is \u201cpastoral\u201d an historically relevant term and how is it used in the Reformed movement today? Rabbi Dayle Friedman, in her edited volume, Jewish Pastoral Care: A Pratical Handbook from Traditional & Contemporary Sources<\/a>, reminds us that \u201cthe term pastoral care is one that was developed in the Christian community. It has clear roots in the Hebrew scriptures . . .\u201d And, Rabbi Charles Sheer makes this point<\/a>\u00a0when he says that along with what he learned in his CPE experience, his \u201cassessment and responses are guided by sources that preceded CPE by millennia. I come from a tradition that places much stock on the written word . . .. I am accompanied by the documents of my Jewish heritage.\u201d<\/p>\n Roman Catholics historically made administering the sacraments a central focus of pastoral care. What this indicates is that pastoral practitioners are in dialogue the traditions that have shaped them as pastoral leaders.<\/p>\n You do not leave these influences at the door of your pastoral care and counseling classes. Conversely, you must work to articulate clear statements about how they inform what, why and where you provide pastoral care and counseling. And so I ask, do you know how your tradition has informed your current understanding of \u201cpastoral\u201d?<\/p>\n We should consider, for a moment, why integrating clinical practices and pastoral identity is difficult. One reason is because it is a professional developmental task. It takes intentionality, an educational setting that takes the pastoral aspect of your work seriously, and requires that in your educational program the formational dimension is explicitly attended to as an integral part of the program. In fact, it must shape the creation of the program. So, it takes commitment from multiple parties. You, but also your educators.<\/p>\n If you are thinking this is not easy\u2014you\u2019re right! It takes a community of pastoral practitioners to help you achieve an integrated pastoral identity. But the result is one that benefits you as a practitioner and those who come seeking help from you.<\/p>\n For example, when someone comes to you for assistance, they are likely coming because you have \u201cpastoral\u201d preceding your clinical designation. For those who seek a pastoral psychotherapist or psychologist, they hope you will be able to understand the religious, spiritual, and moral impulses that frame their concerns and view of life. Not only that, they are likely coming with the hope that you know personally what it means to live an integrated life.<\/p>\n But you must convey that you value the place of religion and spirituality in a healthy life, and that in the work you do the psychological and the pastoral each contribute to your practice of pastoral care.<\/p>\n If the pastoral and psychological both contribute to your practice, your pastoral identity will be apparent in the following ways:<\/p>\n None of these things will happen overnight, but you can begin the process of integrating your tradition into your practice now. Being comfortable with your religious tradition’s definition of “pastoral”, or its equivalent, allows you to begin integrating the\u00a0the different languages of the religious and the psychological, which we’ll discuss in the next part of this series.<\/p>\n So what does “pastoral” mean to you and your tradition? What does it mean to provide care? Jump in on the comments and let me know.<\/p>\n Phillis Isabella Sheppard, Associate Professof of Pastoral Psychology and Theology, is a womanist practical theologian, psychoanalyst and sometime poet.\u00a0Dr. Sheppard\u2019s research engages the intersection where the social and the intrapsychic meet. Her recently published Self, Culture and Others in Womanist Practical Theology<\/em>\u00a0<\/a>addresses serious lacunae in pastoral theology, psychology of religion, and psychoanalytic theory.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" When I was just beginning my training at the Center for Religion and Psychotherapy, one our professors shared his experience sitting with a new client. 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You don’t have to present yourself as perfectly \u201ctogether\u201d<\/h2>\n
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