{"id":7620,"date":"2020-09-09T13:01:46","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T17:01:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/?p=7620"},"modified":"2021-02-16T11:01:01","modified_gmt":"2021-02-16T16:01:01","slug":"community-covid-conflict-sessions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/2020\/09\/09\/community-covid-conflict-sessions\/","title":{"rendered":"Conflict, Conversation and Community Workshops: Navigating the hard stuff in this new world"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/dos\/files\/2020\/08\/Untitled-design-1-424x300.png\" alt=\"The word conflict written out nicely\" width=\"326\" height=\"231\" class=\"wp-image-7558 alignright\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/08\/Untitled-design-1-424x300.png 424w, https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/08\/Untitled-design-1-1024x724.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/08\/Untitled-design-1-768x543.png 768w, https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/08\/Untitled-design-1.png 1072w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 326px) 100vw, 326px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This post is now out of date. Want to sign up for one of our workshops? Please visit <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/2021\/01\/31\/student-conflict-workshops\/\">our new sign up form<\/a>.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Join us for a workshop exploring tips, tricks, and skills around managing conflict, hard conversations and challenging moments in this uncharted COVID world \u2014 and beyond.<\/p>\n<p>Get experience to help manage <strong>challenging conversations<\/strong> with friends, e-board, team or suitemates. <strong>Practice<\/strong> how to respond to tense group-work dynamics. Workshop conflict you&#8217;ve experienced or difficult conversations you anticipate.<\/p>\n<p>How to tell friends to put a mask on, stop stealing your food, and turn down the music while staying on good terms. How to you fix things after you have let someone down? How to set the stage for a hard conversation when you really want the relationship to continue? Find out if you are <strong><em>really<\/em><\/strong> a good listener?<\/p>\n<p>You will leave with a better understanding of yourself and gain tools to reduce stress and manage issues before they grow into larger conflicts. Great for student leaders, those who detest conflict and students who want to form deeper connections with peers.<\/p>\n<p>In-person and virtual sessions available.<\/p>\n<p>To register, please click on the session you are interested in. Co-sponsored by the Dean of Students Office and the Wellbeing Project. This is part of the University&#8217;s new <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/student-conflict-resolution-program-scrp\/\">Student Conflict Resolution Program (SCRP.)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/dos\/files\/2020\/09\/BU-Wellbeing-Logos_Final_1A-528x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"199\" class=\"wp-image-7638 alignleft\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/09\/BU-Wellbeing-Logos_Final_1A-528x300.jpg 528w, https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/09\/BU-Wellbeing-Logos_Final_1A-1024x582.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/09\/BU-Wellbeing-Logos_Final_1A-768x437.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/09\/BU-Wellbeing-Logos_Final_1A-1536x873.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.bu.edu\/dos\/files\/2020\/09\/BU-Wellbeing-Logos_Final_1A-2048x1165.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For questions please <a href=\"mailto:harriss@bu.edu\">email Stacey Harris<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>Boston University strives to be accessible, inclusive and diverse in our facilities, programming and academic offerings. Your experience in this event is important to us. If you have a disability (including but not limited to learning or attention, mental health, concussion, vision, mobility, hearing, physical or other health-related), require communication access services for the deaf or hard of hearing, or believe that you require a reasonable accommodation for another reason please contact the event organizer Stacey Harris at <a href=\"mailto:harriss@bu.edu\">harriss@bu.edu<\/a> to discuss your needs.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\">var gform;gform||(document.addEventListener(\"gform_main_scripts_loaded\",function(){gform.scriptsLoaded=!0}),window.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){gform.domLoaded=!0}),gform={domLoaded:!1,scriptsLoaded:!1,initializeOnLoaded:function(o){gform.domLoaded&&gform.scriptsLoaded?o():!gform.domLoaded&&gform.scriptsLoaded?window.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",o):document.addEventListener(\"gform_main_scripts_loaded\",o)},hooks:{action:{},filter:{}},addAction:function(o,n,r,t){gform.addHook(\"action\",o,n,r,t)},addFilter:function(o,n,r,t){gform.addHook(\"filter\",o,n,r,t)},doAction:function(o){gform.doHook(\"action\",o,arguments)},applyFilters:function(o){return gform.doHook(\"filter\",o,arguments)},removeAction:function(o,n){gform.removeHook(\"action\",o,n)},removeFilter:function(o,n,r){gform.removeHook(\"filter\",o,n,r)},addHook:function(o,n,r,t,i){null==gform.hooks[o][n]&&(gform.hooks[o][n]=[]);var e=gform.hooks[o][n];null==i&&(i=n+\"_\"+e.length),gform.hooks[o][n].push({tag:i,callable:r,priority:t=null==t?10:t})},doHook:function(n,o,r){var t;if(r=Array.prototype.slice.call(r,1),null!=gform.hooks[n][o]&&((o=gform.hooks[n][o]).sort(function(o,n){return o.priority-n.priority}),o.forEach(function(o){\"function\"!=typeof(t=o.callable)&&(t=window[t]),\"action\"==n?t.apply(null,r):r[0]=t.apply(null,r)})),\"filter\"==n)return r[0]},removeHook:function(o,n,t,i){var r;null!=gform.hooks[o][n]&&(r=(r=gform.hooks[o][n]).filter(function(o,n,r){return!!(null!=i&&i!=o.tag||null!=t&&t!=o.priority)}),gform.hooks[o][n]=r)}});<\/script>\n                <div class='gf_browser_gecko gform_wrapper gform_legacy_markup_wrapper gform-theme--no-framework' data-form-theme='legacy' data-form-index='0' id='gform_wrapper_76' >\n                        <div class='gform_heading'>\n                            <h3 class=\"gform_title\">Student Conflict Resolution Workshops - Spring 2021<\/h3>\n                            <p class='gform_description'><\/p>\n                        <\/div><form method='post' enctype='multipart\/form-data'  id='gform_76'  action='\/dos\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7620' data-formid='76' >\n                        <div class='gform-body gform_body'><ul id='gform_fields_76' class='gform_fields top_label form_sublabel_below description_below'><li id=\"field_76_2\"  class=\"gfield gfield--type-text gfield_contains_required field_sublabel_below gfield--no-description field_description_below gfield_visibility_visible\"  data-js-reload=\"field_76_2\"><label class='gfield_label gform-field-label' for='input_76_2' >Name<span class=\"gfield_required\"><span class=\"gfield_required gfield_required_asterisk\">*<\/span><\/span><\/label><div class='ginput_container ginput_container_text'><input name='input_2' id='input_76_2' type='text' value='' class='medium'     aria-required=\"true\" aria-invalid=\"false\"   \/> <\/div><\/li><li id=\"field_76_3\"  class=\"gfield gfield--type-email gfield_contains_required field_sublabel_below gfield--has-description field_description_above gfield_visibility_visible\"  data-js-reload=\"field_76_3\"><label class='gfield_label gform-field-label' for='input_76_3' >BU Email<span class=\"gfield_required\"><span class=\"gfield_required gfield_required_asterisk\">*<\/span><\/span><\/label><div class='gfield_description' id='gfield_description_76_3'>Please use your BU email to register.<\/div><div class='ginput_container ginput_container_email'>\n                            <input name='input_3' id='input_76_3' type='text' value='' class='medium'    aria-required=\"true\" aria-invalid=\"false\" aria-describedby=\"gfield_description_76_3\" \/>\n                        <\/div><\/li><li id=\"field_76_10\"  class=\"gfield gfield--type-select field_sublabel_below gfield--has-description field_description_above gfield_visibility_visible\"  data-js-reload=\"field_76_10\"><label class='gfield_label gform-field-label' for='input_76_10' >Conflict, Conversations and Community<\/label><div class='gfield_description' id='gfield_description_76_10'>Please select the session date(s) you would like to attend. |\n\nJoin us for a workshop exploring tips, tricks, and skills around managing conflict, hard conversations, and challenging moments in this uncharted COVID world \u2014 and beyond. How to tell friends to put a mask on, stop stealing your food, and turn down the music while staying on good terms. How do you fix things after you have let someone down? How to set the stage for a hard conversation when you really want the relationship to continue? 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