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There are 2 comments on Public Safety Week: The Art of Self-Defense

  1. Please explain how “Stranger = Danger” jibes with the popularly touted ideals of tolerance and diversity (???).
    This may be a suitable mantra for a latchkey elementary school girl, but as adults, distrust of “strangers” has given us every one of history’s most regrettable socio-political periods.
    Of course we should all be aware of the possible dangers that face everyone who leaves the house, and be prepared to deal with them. But think of all the tens of thousands of strangers you have passed just in the past year. How many left you alone? How many helped you in some small way? How many harmed you? I’m betting that last column is the smallest.
    Let’s be safe, but not paranoid.

  2. Self-defense can be a great thing for both men and women to learn. That said, I take exception to the idea being put forth here (both in this article and by the fact that this class is called “Rape Aggression Defense”) that women should be living by a “rape schedule”. This is the idea that you should live with a constant awareness that you could be attacked, and that all your actions should focus on preventing that: don’t go certain places at certain times, carry your keys in your hand, etc. It makes you feel like there is no public space for you; anywhere at any time you’re a potential victim and it is YOUR JOB to prevent that. This isn’t even necessarily going to prevent a rape or a sexual assault- most of these crimes are committed by someone you know, with whom you’d let your guard down.

    Learning self-defense is great and can’t hurt, but we need to be more careful about how we frame these things and what we call it. It is not a woman’s responsiblity to make sure she’s not a victim.

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