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There are 8 comments on Collateral Damage

  1. In this week’s first story, students in the video said the didn’t think BU students drank that heavily… but do you think evidence supports that they do actually do? More than average? (And what is average?)

  2. How prevalent is the use of date rape drugs at parties around BU? And how can I prevent anyone from slipping something into my drink?

  3. I just wanted to say that I spoke briefly with the writer before the publication of this piece and asked that she speak with some of my fellow volunteers at the Women’s Resource Center.

    I wish she had been able to do so, because one phrase in the article is a little problematic. “She and Margaret Ross, director of Behavioral Medicine, worry most about freshmen, especially women (who are at greater risk of sexual assault)”. This is an unfounded statement that goes against what many organisations at BU stand for.

    Saying that women need to watch their alcohol consumption to avoid assault implies that women are responsible for avoiding their own rapes; it implies that excuses like “she was drunk” or “she was asking for it” are viable. Not only is this insulting, but such mentalities further endanger women.

    Sexual assault is not a victim’s issue. Sexual assault is a perpetrator’s issue; potential perpetrators are the ones who can stop rape. Saying that female students need to arm themselves is VICTIM BLAMING. It is not only wrong, but it is not the issue at hand.

    I can only speak for myself but I want all female students to know that they should feel safe on campus and that they should NEVER feel judged for enjoying the lifestyle of a typical college student. If any student–regardless of gender–has a concern, needs help, or wants to hang out in a judgment-free zone–the WRC in the basement of the GSU is always welcoming.

  4. In regards to the first response, I think that the article reveals little, if any, insinuation that women are to blame for their own sexual assault. Firstly, let us keep in mind that the overall sentiment of the article is one of concern for the physical health of all BU students.

    Referencing statistics which reveal that more than 60% of sexually transmitted diseases contracted by women were contracted under the influence of alcohol is a wake up call to students of any sex to not forgo the use of protection. We must acknowledge that alcohol does relax inhibitions and might cause anybody to minimize the importance of protection during sex.

    Furthermore I think your critique of the sentence “She and Margaret Ross, director of Behavioral Medicine, worry most about freshmen, especially women (who are at greater risk of sexual assault)” is problematic itself. If anything, this statement is a warning for women to be more vigilant in watching for the inebriation of potential sexual PERPETRATORS. I think that assuming that these women ARE being blamed for their own sexual assault is accusatory in tone. It infers that this is the predominant reaction to women who report sexual, and actually, perpetuates the myth that they are resposible for their won assault itself.

    It not the sentiment of your argument with which I disagree. Blaming women for their own assault IS a serious and very real issue. But don’t make this an issue where it is not. Don’t put words in people’s mouths. This is what makes people defensive and stop listening to very real concerns in regards to sexual assault. The writers and professionals in this article are doing nothing other than trying to help students of all sexes when it comes to drinking, health, and sexual activity.

    And in closing, I am a female, a proud feminist, and a survivor of sexual assault myself. Please don’t tell me that people assumed that this was my fault. It presupposes blaming me in the first place.

  5. I agree entirely with the previous poster. I don’t think the article is blaming women for their own assaults either intentionally or unintentionally and I think saying it does is unfounded. I think the message the article and people interviewed in the article are trying to convey is the same message they give students for all types of crime prevention such as muggings: be aware of your surroundings, take precautions, go places with friends, etc.

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