• Susan Seligson

    Susan Seligson has written for many publications and websites, including the New York Times Magazine, The Atlantic, the Boston Globe, Yankee, Outside, Redbook, the Times of London, Salon.com, Radar.com, and Nerve.com. Profile

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There are 17 comments on BU’s Haitian Community Grieves

  1. I’m not sure why these students would bother to pray. Since when has prayer helped solve anything? Maybe if you really cared about the livelihood of these people, you’d do something more useful like donating to the Red Cross. Prayer simply makes you feel like you’ve done something when you really haven’t. The old saying is true: Two hands working can do more than a thousand clasped in prayer.

  2. To the Person who commented above…when you have no way of hearing how your family is doing, when you cannot get any form contact with your family, when even the Haitian government cannot offer you much information, you can find some type of peace and hope within prayer. Do not assume that prayer is the only thing that these students are doing. It’s an insult to them and their families.

  3. I’m not at all religious, first poster, but I imagine that the value of prayer is akin to the value of meditation: finding calm in the knowledge that our power is limited, which empowers us to do what we actually can. (And these students are in fact raising money, at the GSU, as the article states clearly.)

    I think it’s disheartening and harmful for any of us to criticize the peaceful coping methods of those experiencing both a family and national tragedy.

  4. I am inclined to agree with the first commenter that prayer can be merely a personal palliative. At its best, however, by alleviating the feeling of helplessness in the face of such devastation, it can be the very thing that allows those same to hands to take up the hard work of rebuilding.

    This scale of catastrophe can be stultifying. We need the full arsenal of human resilience. People of faith have an excellent donation record but I too encourage those who might only pray, or even open their wallet, (or write wall posts), to look for volunteer opportunities in their own communities.

  5. So prayer and tangible relief for those in aid are mutually exclusive, are they? Ask the millions of religious people in this country and around the world involved in service to those in need and you’re likely to hear a different story from most of them–one in which prayer further sensitizes them to the suffering of those around them and empowers them to reach out with caring hands.

  6. Yea but a little prayer can’t hurt either. God can work wonders. He doesn’t expect you to sit around and do nothing, of course. If you pray to Him and go out and provide humanitarian services that are effiacious and lifesaving, then that is a potent combination.

  7. I feel the need to respond to the previous post about prayer. I did donate to the red cross, but even so, I also feel prayer can be very valuable in helping people in Haiti and abroad in finding some measure of peace through this horrible time. When I pray, I pray that someone’s family will be found, I pray that God will give strength to search crews to keep going and to give them the wisdom to work quickly and safely. I pray that even when someone finds out a family member has died, that they will be able to grieve and move forward someday and know that they will see their loved one again in time. It makes me sad for people who don’t believe in prayer or think it won’t do any good. There are people who just physically cannot donate for one measure or another and prayer is the only way they feel they can do something good. Please don’t mock it until you’ve really given prayer an honest try….

    1. Yes, I agree with you. Prayer plays a very important role in life. "Donating" our prayer to the victims is a must, I think. It’s about humanity. Of course, physical help would be beneficial also. I support you.
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  8. Nobody here said that prayer was the ONLY thing one should do. If people find comfort in prayer, and they’re also taking whatever earthly action they can, what’s the harm? Praying together as a community can bring solace to those who are struggling under tremendous burdens right now, and bring people together who may choose to take other actions as well.

    I’ve sent my money to Doctors Without Borders, and I’ve prayed for the living and the dead. I’m reasonably sure that the former will bring medical supplies to those currently in desperate need, and I know for certain that the prayer helped me focus my energies on doing what I can to help.

  9. Everyone has times when they feel overwhelmed or “outnumbered” by the things that are coming against them. You may have heard the saying, “When it rains, it pours.” For example, just about the time the air conditioner needs repair in your house, the transmission goes out in your car. It seems like one thing after another. It may feel as if all the forces of darkness are coming against you, but the scripture promises that with God on your side, you have all the resources you need to have complete victory. You are never outnumbered because the Greater One lives in you!
    The next time you’re feeling anxious, fearful, or worried about anything, remember He’s on your side. If God is for you, who can be against you? He promises to guide and protect you and lead you into victory in every area of your life!
    Heavenly Father, thank You for Your faithfulness to the Haitian Community. Thank You for Your peace even in the midst of the storms that they are facing right now. I know that You are with them, and they can stand strong because You will lead them into victory all the days of their lives. In Jesus’ Name. Amen

  10. For those who wish to pray for and assist those in need:

    BU Catholic Center (211 Bay State Rd) will have it’s chapel open to prayer before the Blessed Sacrament on Friday (1/15/10) from 1-5pm for situation in Haiti.
    A second collection will be taken at the Sunday masses at Marsh (12:30, 6, 10pm) to be donated to Catholic Relief Services which plans to raise $50 million for Haiti.

  11. What I find sickening is how some people turn to God when times get rough (preaching and acting as if they were faithful all along), but then forget about Him altogether when the situation improves. You know who you are…

  12. I know whoever wondered why prayer is important for the Haitian Community is not Haitian. Prayer and Faith can get you thru most of the bad things that can happen to you. I have been praying non stop and I believe that it has kept my sanity. Donating money is great, but you also need the faith. Faith that your loved ones will be safe, will come home, that you will be able to hold them in your arms again, that you will be able to stand in the soil of your country once more. If you don’t need the prayer, you don’t have to, but some of us need to, so that we can work together and save our people

  13. Yes–pray that your money gets to Haiti or to the poor who really needs it. I don’t think it will–but I will pray everday that God will keep his hands over the people of Haiti and they will find the strength to carry on and rebuilt their country.

  14. It’s really one of the largest tragedies of our time. I have never seen such a human catastrophy before.

    Man still is a little piece of dust against the power of nature.

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